We’ve likely all heard the phrase, “There are no dumb questions,” in various settings in an attempt to encourage people to speak up and ask questions. While this may be a well-intentioned notion, the reality is that not enough people are asking questions. According to Fast Company, 49% of employees say they are not regularly asked for ideas. It’s not enough to assume that employees will approach leadership with their ideas or questions. Thus, it’s up to leaders to focus on asking more (and better) questions to build alignment and build meaningful relationships within their teams.
Why Questions Matter
Asking questions isn’t always just about finding the “right” answer. In fact, asking the right questions is an essential skill for a leader to hone through training, practice, and application. Still, many leaders leave it up to their employees to pose the questions.
When a panel of entrepreneurs was asked what they wished their employees talked about, one responded: “I wish my employees would talk to me more about questions or ideas they have. We have an open-door policy, so I wish more employees would stop by and be candid, direct, and assertive with me about what they’re thinking. I think they don’t because they’ve been taught you should just conform and do what you’re told. They might have it ingrained in their head to not ask questions or speak up.”
As a good leader, questions should not only be used to seek out an answer but to encourage creative thinking, problem-solving, and communication. Let’s start by defining the primary types of questions and how you can leverage them to pose better questions to your team.
All Questions are Not Equal
For leaders looking to hone their questioning skills, the most logical starting point is to know the different types of questions. There are four main categories of questions:
While closed-answer questions are useful in some scenarios, they don’t encourage creative thinking or communication.
How to Ask Better Questions
With a leader skilled in asking the right questions, teams are stronger and more inquisitive. Asking questions is a trust-builder for leaders and teams, strengthening relationships and enhancing employee development. For many leaders, the art of asking questions is not an innate skill, so it requires practice to perfect. Here are three relatively simple steps to start asking your team better questions:
Following these techniques, leaders can transform their teams into valuable sources of ideas and innovation by asking the right questions. Asking questions enables a team to look at a problem from all angles to identify the best solution while strengthening bonds of collaboration and communication. As a result, teams are more cohesive and can come together to solve challenging problems.
Are your leaders struggling to nurture their teams? Contact Connect the Dots Consulting and we can help guide your leaders to ask the right questions that create successful teams.
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We start with thoughtfully diagnosing the team’s current culture by using available data, assessments and interviews.
This provides the team leader with a clear view of what is getting in the way of the team’s success.
We design a series of structured team sessions that:
Measure progress by leveraging CTD’s team-connect Survey to: